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B Jones's avatar

I’ve been married for 15 years. We got married at SF City Hall, and used the savings on the venue to pay for airfare and hotels for all of our guests, so nobody had to spend a dime. It was an unconventional approach, but the ceremony was beautiful and we have very sweet memories of the day, including friends and family who could not have made it otherwise. I think it is important to plan a wedding that is going to align most with your values.

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The Style Investigator's avatar

Almost all the weddings I went to in my 20s ended in divorce. It was great to get married myself for the first time at 42; there was virtually no pressure (family or social) to do things any certain way but what was right for us.

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