I really relate to this especially about the shame and lost wonder. Trying to unlearn that and grow into my adult self has been hard but it’s definitely worth it
I really related to this, especially the double standard for men and women. There's also a pretty messed up saying 'Men will be men, women become Aunty's', that a lot of 'boys' turning 'men' casually joke about. But, it isn't a joke, is it? It is patriarchy rooted in everyone's heads like our grey cells.
I’m glad this connected with you Srinidhi! That saying that you’re referencing hits on the crux of the problem I’m referring to - men are allowed to graduate to this second form of mature beauty and women are destined to be defined by their relationships to others (namely men). We should all be granted the same ability to grow, age, and let it show on our faces!
Thanks Kali! :) It’s funny that I’ve found a way to connect more to my inner child when stepping more into the fact of womanhood. Unexpected and seemingly paradoxical, but real for me!
I really relate to this especially about the shame and lost wonder. Trying to unlearn that and grow into my adult self has been hard but it’s definitely worth it
Absolutely, I’m glad to here I’m not alone in these feelings! Appreciate you reading!
I really related to this, especially the double standard for men and women. There's also a pretty messed up saying 'Men will be men, women become Aunty's', that a lot of 'boys' turning 'men' casually joke about. But, it isn't a joke, is it? It is patriarchy rooted in everyone's heads like our grey cells.
I’m glad this connected with you Srinidhi! That saying that you’re referencing hits on the crux of the problem I’m referring to - men are allowed to graduate to this second form of mature beauty and women are destined to be defined by their relationships to others (namely men). We should all be granted the same ability to grow, age, and let it show on our faces!
Agreed. I guess it is time we say 'F.. all this', I am redefining how I live.
Love this! I really relate as I’ve started to accept myself and the fact that I’m getting older. It’s a very freeing feeling. This was a lovely read💗
Thanks so much Summer :) 🤍
Very well done! Insightful
Thank you :)!
Great article !
Thank you for reading! 🤍
Thanks Kali! :) It’s funny that I’ve found a way to connect more to my inner child when stepping more into the fact of womanhood. Unexpected and seemingly paradoxical, but real for me!